Have you been afraid for your life? Are you afraid to be pulled over by police--that you might be killed during a traffic stop? Are you afraid of random violence against you in the streets (as per Asians). What kind of "hate" are you describing, exactly? Pointing out white privilege is not hateful, it is a way for white people to understand current racism better. That they do not live with these fears as we do. This is important for awakening their compassion and understanding. How is this hateful? White privilege is just a fact. It does not convey blame.